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Ask Amy: My friends walked out of the funeral, and I was frozen in shock

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

Dear Amy: I appreciate the conversation in your column about funerals.While I understand that these events can be healing for family members, they can also be traumatic for some.Many years ago, I lost my partner to AIDS. He came from a very religious family who had always treated me kindly.My partner had requested that his parents be allowed to handle the funeral service, as it was important to them, and I agreed.I flew to his childhood home with my mother and several of our mutual friends, and was welcomed warmly by the family at the viewing and treated as the grieving widower that I was.However, at the funeral the next day, the officiant went on and on about how my partner would be going to Hell and would remain there until his mother passed and “redeemed” him for his sinful “life choices,” along with many other remarks about his “lifestyle.”Many of our mutual friends walked out.Sitting in the front pews with my mother, I simply sat in shock. I was horrified and devastated, but th...

Sunday Storms in Store

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

Well hopefully you enjoyed the sunshine and dry weather conditions Saturday because storms unfortunately return to the forecast. A front near the central Gulf Coast this Sunday morning will reach South Florida tomorrow morning, elevating our rain chances from Sunday afternoon through Monday evening.Expect a bright and mostly dry start to the day this Sunday with temperatures heating up into the mid to upper 80s by the early afternoon hours. By this time, showers and storms are then expected to develop inland and will get a push toward the east coast metro. Therefore, scattered showers and thunderstorms are expected from the mid-afternoon hours through the evening, generally between 3pm and 9pm.Some of these storms could contain heavy rain, so flooding is a concern especially in Broward County which has received so much rainfall over the past week. There will also be the threat for isolated severe storms today with some of the storms producing strong winds and small hail.The risk for...

Japan prime minister vows to boost G7 security after smoke bomb attack

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

Japan’s Prime Minister Fumio Kishida said he would increase security at G7 meetings taking place in his country, a day after a man threw a smoke bomb at him at a campaign event. Kishida was campaigning Saturday ahead of next week’s by-elections for the Japanese parliament when an explosive device was hurled toward him. Footage on Twitter appeared to show a bodyguard kicking a smoke bomb away from the prime minister and bundling him away, after the device landed near them. A 24-year-old man was arrested at the scene.Japan will host the leaders of the Group of Seven most industrialized nations at a summit in Hiroshima next month.On Sunday, speaking after emerging unscathed from the smoke bomb incident, CNN quoted Kishida as saying: “Japan as a whole must strive to provide maximum security during the dates of the summit and other gatherings of dignitaries from around the world.”G7 foreign ministers are meeting Sunday for a three-day conference in Karuizawa, where they...

Who will the Chicago Bears select at No. 9? Brad Biggs’ NFL mock draft 2.0.

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

Unless Jalen Carter falls to No. 9, which would be a sign teams seriously dinged the Georgia defensive tackle for character and makeup concerns, there might not be a premium defensive player on the board for Chicago Bears general manager Ryan Poles to select.The Bears could deem Carter’s Bulldogs teammate Nolan Smith, who measured 6-foot-2, 238 pounds, large enough to fit in Matt Eberflus’ scheme as a hybrid pass rusher. Perhaps Carter will experience a wait when the draft kicks off April 27 and he’s there for the Bears to consider.If not, the Bears — who have made only marginal improvements to a shoddy pass rush and defensive line — would have to go a different direction. It’s impossible to say how things will shake out, and maybe a talent no one expected will remain when Poles has the chance to make the first first-round pick of his tenure.This dilemma, the one the Bears surely are working through, is the price the Bears had to pay to get wide r...

Column: Chicago Bulls and White Sox provide a double dose of agony for dual Chairman Jerry Reinsdorf

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

It was a bad day at the office for Jerry Reinsdorf, who exited the Chicago White Sox game before the end of Friday’s 6-3 loss to the Baltimore Orioles.In his suite at Guaranteed Rate Field, the two-team chairman watched the Sox bullpen blow a 3-0 lead to drop four games under .500 while also keeping tabs on the Bulls as they collapsed down the stretch in their 102-91 play-in loss to the Miami Heat.It was a one-two punch to the midsection. Poom. Poom.Making matters worse, his $215 million star, Zach LaVine, scored one point in the fourth quarter and finished 6-for-21 from the field. And his new starter, Mike Clevinger, thumbed his nose at the world by choosing Kanye West’s song “Gold Digger” as his entrance music leaving the bullpen, an apparent reference to the domestic abuse allegations he was cleared of by an MLB investigation.If Reinsdorf woke up Saturday and used “agony” as his starting word in Wordle, no one would’ve blamed him. He has ...

Howie Carr: Massachusetts Democrats to the people — ‘What’s ours is ours and what’s yours is ours’

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

This is what a one-party state looks like.On Thursday, the Massachusetts House voted 128–26 to gut a law passed by the voters that provided tax relief to the working classes on those rare occasions when the Commonwealth collected too much money.Last year, the taxpayers — not to be confused with Democrats — were refunded $3 billion of their own money under the provisions of the law, known as 62F.The hackerama was outraged that people who worked would get back some of their own money. They were determined to get rid of 62F. It was priority number one once the state Republican party committed mass suicide last year.How many Democrats, you ask, voted to abide by the will of the people and uphold the referendum question that passed easily in 1986 with a 54 percent majority?Two. Exactly two Democrats voted to continue giving taxpayers a break — Reps. Colleen Garry of Dracut and Jeff Turco of Winthrop.When it comes to the subject of working people and their money, the Democrats on Beacon H...

ASK IRA: Does Bucks in five sound about right against Heat?

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

Q: Ira, why can’t the Heat do to Milwaukee what they did in the bubble? They had Giannis Antetokounmpo figured out and we saw Friday that Playoff Jimmy Butler remains a thing. We’re going back to the Finals. – Eddie.A: And there is nothing wrong with believing and with dreaming. So if this bursts your bubble, I apologize in advance. But since the Heat got past the Bucks in 2020 at Disney, they were summarily swept by Milwaukee the following postseason in the first round. Giannis Antetokounmpo has gotten better as a player since then, and the Bucks have gotten better as a team. I agree that Playoff Jimmy still is capable of swinging a game, but I’m not sure that this is a series Jimmy Butler can swing. So take it one step at a time. First show you can win one, preferably before Game 4, then move forward from there. There is a reason one team enters as a No. 1 seed and the other as No. 8. The disparity between the teams has been that significant this season.Q: ...

Saturday’s high school results

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

Beloved Dennis-Yarmouth principal Paul Funk passed away unexpectedly Saturday morning.A Wakefield High grad, Funk went on to play his college baseball at the University of Connecticut. Following there, he served as teacher and assistant football coach at Everett before heading south.Funk has been at Dennis-Yarmouth for more than two decades, serving as football coach and athletic director before assuming his duties as principal. During his time as football coach from 2001-2018, the Dolphins went 125-64-1 and captured a pair of Super Bowl titles.Following the 2018 season, he made the tough decision to give up roles as football coach and athletic director to become principal.“Football has been a big part of my life down here. I took over in 2000 and we only had a JV team at the time,” Funk said at the time. “But (becoming principal) is something that was important for me and my family at this point in my life.”Funk was set to become principal at Duxbury High where he was living with h...

NFL Notes: Robert Kraft expects Patriots to make hay in the draft

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

As optimistic as Robert Kraft sounded at the owner’s meetings last month, the job of repairing the Patriots remains far from complete.To that end, Kraft placed a bullseye squarely on the draft, as in X marks the spot. As in, there’s considerable pressure on Bill Belichick and Matt Groh to deliver with their 2023 selections.It’s debatable whether there’s an “or else” attached, but Kraft clearly sent a message.Belichick and Groh, the team’s head of player personnel, have to put the finishing touches on the roster to ensure it will be good enough to not only get back to the postseason, but also take steps to ensure the Patriots will be in a favorable position for the future.In a nutshell, that was Kraft’s edict.“One of my beliefs … to be good in this league, you’ve got to draft well,” Kraft said. “Given the salary cap, and the value of people you draft, as opposed to hiring them as free agents, that’s where your greatest return comes from.“So, we have a number of picks this...

Guregian: If the Celtics get the Rob Williams that showed up in Game 1, they’ll be fine

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 18:46:26 GMT

On the opening montage on the Jumbotron at TD Garden prior to the start of the game, an ultra-serious Marcus Smart appeared on the screen and the Celtics point guard delivered the following message: “There’s only one goal. Banner 18.”There’s a long way to go to achieve that goal, and take care of their “unfinished business” but Game 1 against the Atlanta Hawks is in the books.Impressions? Takeaways?Even with a significant letdown in the second half that caused a few anxious moments, not to mention a spike on the worry meter with this team, the Celtics still checked off all the necessary boxes.Jayson Tatum (25 points) and Jaylen Brown (29 points) provided their usual one-two punch, as Brown shook off any discomfort caused by the five-stitch cut on his shooting hand, which actually opened up at one point and needed attention.Derrick White, meanwhile, gave Trae Young (5-for-18 shooting) fits trying to score, and pump out his usual 26.2 points per game. White (24 points) even outscored ...